About this page
This page describes my personal experience, a financial dispute I have with a former partner, my ex-fiance and the documentation I possess. It is written in my voice and intended to warn others and provide context. This is not a legal judgment — if you need legal advice, consult an attorney.
Who this is about
I am naming the person involved because I believe transparency helps others make informed decisions. The individual named below is who I dealt with in this dispute:
- Name: Charles Sealy III
- Background I am aware of: Former national track & field athlete for the Bahamas.
Note: the facts here reflect information I encountered during our relationship and are included to help others verify independently if they choose to.
My personal account — what happened
I was engaged to Charles for a year. He proposed in December 2023. I lived with Charles for 2 years. During that time I covered shared living expenses, bills, and other costs on his behalf. Over time I tracked these expenses in a spreadsheet and later obtained a written acknowledgment from him regarding the outstanding balance.
I am recounting this to caution others: it is my experience and the documentation I hold supports the financial claim described below.
Key points:
- I provided financial support and paid shared expenses while we lived together.
- I documented each expense and kept an accounting spreadsheet tracking amounts and dates.
- I have a written agreement in which Charles acknowledged owing money to me.
- I have documented photos and videos of his infidelity.
- News article to accused criminal charge of indecent assault which led to us finally parting ways.
A personal account of the emotional, verbal and financial abuse I experienced.
The end of our relationship was the result of repeated experiences that affected my trust, my emotional well-being, and my financial stability. The following points are based on my personal experiences and the documentation and conversations I personally witnessed or was directly involved in:
- In April 2024, I became indirectly involved in a civil dispute between Charles and one of my neighbors, after Charles received payment for personal training services that I understand were not fulfilled. I was not a party to the dispute myself, but I observed the stress, conversations, and financial strain surrounding it. My understanding is that the matter was eventually resolved financially by his family.
- During our relationship, I referred clients to Charles for personal training. Some of those individuals later told me directly that they paid for services they felt were not completed or delivered as agreed. I am not making any legal claims on their behalf; I am simply stating that they came to me with their experiences.
- In July/August 2024, while we were engaged, I personally discovered explicit recordings on my own device of Charles with another woman. The emotional impact of that discovery was deeply destabilizing and contributed significantly to the breakdown of trust in our relationship.
- In February 2025, I became aware of a publicly-reported legal matter involving Charles. According to The Tribune (Bahamas), Charles is currently facing an allegation and ongoing legal proceedings. I am not involved in the case and I am not asserting guilt or innocence — the matter is ongoing.
- Throughout the period during which repayment of the $20,000 CAD remained outstanding, I observed active monthly charges connected to dating applications on an account I previously had shared access to. This led me to believe that financial constraints were not the only reason for delayed repayment.
The financial dispute (summary)
According to a written agreement in my possession, Charles acknowledged a debt to me of CAD $20,000. This amount reflects expenses I covered while we cohabited and other related costs I recorded in my spreadsheet.
| Item | Amount (CAD) |
| Documented outstanding balance (as acknowledged) | 20,000.00 |
| Evidence | Written acknowledgment + accounting spreadsheet (available on request / upload). |
If you are considering interacting with this person financially, please review the evidence carefully and proceed with caution.
Timeline (concise)
- MAR 2021: Relationship begins.
- OCT 2022: We begin living together; I cover household expenses.
- JUN 2023: I begin a running spreadsheet tracking expenses.
- DEC 2023: Charles proposed and we got engaged.
- APRIL 2024: Was dragged into a civil lawsuit with my neighbour as he accepted a $5000 cash advance and then stopped fulfilling his services as a personal trainer and could not refund his client.
- MAY 2024: Signed acknowledgment of debt provided by Charles (copy available).
- JULY 2024: Multiple videos found on my ipad device of infidelity and sexual encounters with another woman.
- FEB 2025: Public Record of ongoing legal battles of accused indecent assault
- PRESENT DAY: Debt remains outstanding; attempts to resolve have not resulted in full repayment.
- PRESENT DAY: Evidence of access to funds through paid subscriptions and charges to dating apps Tinder and Feeld
What I experienced — emotional & practical impact
In addition to the financial loss, the experience affected me emotionally and disrupted my finances and sense of trust. I share this part of my story to let others know the real costs — emotional and monetary — of living with someone who does not meet their financial obligations.
This is my perspective and my lived experience.
Resources & next steps
If you are in a similar situation, consider the following actions:
- Keep written records: collect receipts, spreadsheets, messages, and signed acknowledgements.
- Speak to a lawyer or legal clinic about small claims or debt collection options in your jurisdiction.
- Consider mediation or a demand letter before escalating to formal legal action.
- Reach out to trusted friends, family, or support groups for emotional support.